Francis David said “We need not think alike to love alike.” Be willing to go outside of your comfort zone for the sake of your partner.

As long as your partner is doing right 80% of the time let 20% slide. Be appreciative enough to say, “Thank you.” Be vulnerable enough to say, “I’m sorry.” And deep enough to say, “I love you.” 11. Wow! Strive to follow her example and look for ways to make powerful statements of love. I remember early in my relationship with my wife when we were dating She came over to my home and put up and fully decorated a Christmas tree for me to share with my kids. Do Extra And Unexpected Acts Of Kindness. I am stronger than depression and I am braver than loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me.” Reread this quote and vow to be this kind of partner. I will protect you until you die, and after your death I will still protect you. There’s nothing you can ever do to lose my love. I don’t care if you need to stay up crying all night long, I will stay with you. “A life lived in love will never be dull.” ~ Leo Buscaglia 8. A healthy relationship gives each person room to pursue their interests while also creating time for each other. Never treat your partner as an afterthought or an obligation. Let your partner know that you care about them and want to spend time with them. Ask “How is your project going with the ABC account?” instead of always asking, “How was your day?” This shows that you care about what is going on in their life. This sounds simple enough but it is so easy to get caught up in the routine of your day that you forget to really connect with your partner. Take Time To Ask Them How They Are Doing Then Really Listen To Them. I truly appreciate the power of a cellphone but don’t let your cellphone become a wedge between you and your partner. This has become a common complaint in my office. Go to your app store on your phone if you don’t know what I’m talking about. These make the messages more playful and personal. I particularly like Bitmojis as opposed to emojis. It takes seconds to make your partner feel special. Use common sense if you are involved with an emotional vampire.) 4. (I know some of you are concerned if you are involved with someone who has narcissistic personality traits. Be their biggest cheerleader and their ride or die advocate. Never allow anyone to speak badly of your partner. Be unashamed of your love for your partner. I don’t mean big smooches but I do encourage holding hands and putting your arm around your partner. Pretty simple stuff, but very few do these. Maintain a kind and thoughtful eye contact to let them know that you are engaged and trying to understanding. Uncross your arms to show openness to what they are saying. If you want to convey the message that you love your partner, then develop great listening skills. It is rare to find a truly active listener. Brendan Francis is quoted as saying that “A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him.” I believe this goes both ways. Being with you keeps me alive.” ~ Author Unknown 1.

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